Nowadays, almost everyone has an idea in their minds of how an amicable relationship should be. An amicable relationship generally excludes all kinds of disagreements, fights, ego issues. However, this is too good to be true and often does not happen in this fashion. A perfect relationship includes everything – love, fights, cuddles, disagreements, etc.
It should be kept in mind that even if there are disagreements and fights in between couples, it is advisable to take in the fact that it is quite normal and customary to fight till the time both are satiated with the fact that there are deep love and understanding between them.
However, the problem occurs when couples or people in the relationship take these fights and arguments to their heart which causes tension in the relationship and ultimately leads to break-ups in relationships and divorce in marriages.
There are many stumbling blocks if there are regular fights in a relationship. Some of them are discussed below:
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Deprivation of respect:
Respect plays a major role in a relationship. When we talk about respect, it does not mean to only respect the other person’s presence but also to respect his/her opinion, ideas, values, etc. if either of the person in a relationship stops respecting the other one, it simply means he/she has stopped acknowledging the other person’s presence and efforts. It requires an equal amount of sacrifice, compromise and efforts to hold back a relationship from breaking down but if the other person does not respect these, it surely leads to the termination of the relationship.
Boredom comes in:
All relationship, at some point or the other gets moribund. It may be because the couples do not put extraordinary efforts to make there, as well as each other, lives beautiful. This leads to the onset of boredom in their relationship which kills the vibe and charm and both of them will want to stay detached from each other. That will happen because they will not find happiness, fun and pleasure in each other’s company and will after a point of the time want to live separate lives.
Takes away happiness:
When there is an excessive fight in a relationship and lack of communication or miscommunication between the couples, all that they do is think about it the whole day not only killing their own happiness but also that of people near them or related to them. When someone becomes a part of this beautiful institution called relationship, they expect some major amount of happiness from this particular institution. But when this institution fails to provide them with that particular amount of happiness, they can’t think of anything but a break-up.
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Losing confidence and moral support:
When there are constant cribbing and tensions occurring in a relationship, the couples tend to lose confidence and moral support. When they see the love of their life behaving in such a baffled manner, they deep down tend to doubt their choice which leads to their breakdown of confidence. Also, much like love, care and affection, couples in a relationship draw a lot of moral support from each other and regular pressure and tensions in a relationship do not help them lose their moral support but also make them feel lonely and detached despite being with each other for most of the time.
Sulking and frustration draw in:
Everyday fights, cribbing, disagreements, arguments brings frustration in both the person’s lives. Amidst professional pressure, if there are constant sulking and fights in their personal lives, it is obvious to make the person feel more frustrated, annoyed and defeated. To make matters worse, this sometimes leads to the persons involved in the relationship to think of someone else outside their relationship i.e. getting attracted to someone else that gives them more happiness and kind of provides solace amidst their personal disrupted lives.
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Henceforth, we need to understand that no relationship is a cakewalk and it requires a lot of effort and time and sacrifices to hold back a relationship. It is okay to fight and have disagreements but there are certain things to be kept in mind that we all grow every day and while being in a relationship also everyone grows and also should help the other person grow mentally and emotionally. It is okay to get bored also but there should be times when you should change the order and make space for some fun time.
One golden rule to be kept in mind is that communication is the key and there should be communicated directly from the soul and not just conversation. And also, with the other person’s growth and happiness, never overlook your own happiness and growth. Concentrate on yourself also and make room for a happy relationship.